Hi Nicole. Thank you for your gentle analysis.

I agree that, in general, people just exiting a marriage are crazy. I am probably less crazy than most, as this is my third divorce. You might say I’m N.E.W.T.-level at the process (Harry Potter fan? No?).

The first anniversary of our separation is next week, and despite my qualification above, I have changed some over the past year. I guess I just don’t like to admit it!